Joyful Spending Is America’s Guilty Pleasure

Americans like to spend money, and they’re good at it. But they also feel kind of bad about it.

According to a survey from Ally Bank, three-quarters of Americans feel guilty when they spend money on something that brings them joy rather than putting it toward a long-term financial goal. I can confirm this feeling, especially after seeing my credit card statement after my last vacation. At the same time, the survey also notes that almost 70% say they spend “the right amount on joy.” Clearly guilt is part of the joy, which says something about the religious nature of American society that is beyond the scope of economics.

Still, as an economist who specializes in retirement saving, I try never to lose sight of what the purpose of saving is — and it’s not necessarily delayed gratification. The goal is to spread joy evenly across your life. Since earnings increase over time, in theory you should spend wildly and go into debt when you are young, save lots when you are in middle age and earnings peak, and then spend down your savings when you retire. Through it all, you should spend roughly the same amount on what brings you joy. Sure, maybe you skip a few nights out in anticipation of future joy — a trip to Tahiti, say, or a kitchen renovation.

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But the rub here is risk. What if you stop working for a few years in middle age? Or the stock market crashes just before you retire? That is where economics comes in. It says that you should spread the joy around, and it assumes that experiencing a big drop in your living standards is worse than never having any joy at all. So economists like me tend to advise people to have precautionary savings — enough to smooth out the uncertainties in life — or to spend less when you’re young and more as you get older, so you never have to experience a drop in living standards.

Whether your spending is truly excessive and worthy of guilt depends on your financial circumstances, and your preferences for joy today vs. joy tomorrow. Ally Bank, based on its survey and what it is calling the “Joy Index,” argues that Americans can afford to spend more on joyful things. But the data suggest they already are.