A Death Letter to Loved Ones Makes Financial Sense

Tragically, the 75th anniversary of the UK’s National Health Service this week is less a cause for celebration and pride and more a grim reminder of the everyday reality of premature death.

Each week, almost 2,000 people below the age of 65 die in England and Wales. Put another way, you are 250 times more likely to suffer a premature demise than to win a million pounds ($1.27 million) in the National Lottery, and you don’t even have to buy a ticket.

Yet few of us are comfortable contemplating our own mortality, so much so that 60% of UK adults do not have a valid will. This can be a costly and distressing omission.

It’s true that a will is a pretty blunt instrument and a clunky means of imparting practical financial information to those you have suddenly left behind. So let me propose an additional way of talking to loved ones from beyond the grave: Write a letter of wishes, a document that is revealed after your death in which you can address personal and financial issues.

Unlike a will, a letter of wishes is not legally binding. Your executors are not obliged to act on its contents. Nevertheless, it can be used to set out the spirit of how you intend your dependents to be cared for and how your assets should be managed in a way that no legal document can.

The advantages are many. First and foremost, unlike the late Queen Elizabeth’s will, any will you write eventually becomes a public document, so it’s generally not the place to express strong feelings or air long-held grievances. A letter of wishes, however, remains private. As such, it is ideal for informing loved ones of pensions, bank accounts, and, critically, any life insurance you may have.