You’re Asking the Wrong Questions


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“I already do that.”

That’s the common refrain from advisors when I explain The Solin Process℠. But, when I probe further, I find it’s never true.

Asking questions

A critical component of The Solin Process℠ is asking questions. When advisors tell me they ask questions, I ask them to provide examples. Here are some common ones:

What are your retirement goals?

What keeps you up a night?

What has your prior investment experience been like?

While these are questions, they’re not consistent with The Solin Process℠. They are intended to steer the conversation. The subtext is that the advisor is in charge of the meeting and will set the agenda.

The Solin Process℠ achieves the opposite goal. It puts the prospect in charge of the agenda, and lets the conversation go wherever the prospect wants to take it. The advisor makes no effort to do anything other than to get to know and understand the prospect better, by asking soft, open-ended questions, and appropriate follow-ups, like:

Tell me about yourself.

That’s interesting, tell me more about that.

What was that experience like?

(To a couple) How did you meet?