How to Give Useful Advice

Planning is a lot of work for the advisor and for the client – so how can you make the payoff as positive and effective as possible? How can you make your advice useful?

The pivot point in a planning relationship happens when you propose to a client how they can change their behavior to use their financial resources to achieve their goals and live the life they dream of. The relationship is in place, trust is building, data has been collected and recommendations are ready.

For advice to be useful, it must:

Address a problem;
Be understood;
Be sensible and accepted;
Be acted upon; and
Have measurable results and work over time.

Let’s look at each of those criteria.

Address a problem

Until there is a problem that both the client and advisor agree exists, there is no need for a solution. Based on your experience, you may understand that the client’s current course will lead to difficulties down the road (or right away), but unless they see it, there is no motivation to do something difficult, unpleasant or complicated to make a change. Many “change agents,” from politicians to doctors to city planners to advertisers, believe they know how to make your world better. But they fail first to show that the status quo needs to be fixed in a way that is worth having people change their lives.

Never underestimate the power of denial.

Your client already knows how their world works, and it may not seem terrible to them. The biggest obstacle to adopting your proposals is not because it is financial advice. It is Nordstrom (and United Airlines, Hilton Hotels, Lexus, Whole Foods, and their needy child and cute grandchildren) – all the places and ways they spend money today and get immediate gratification instead of setting it aside for the future.

Further, everything is connected. One of the tenets of ecology – including the ecology of money – is that you can never do just one thing. Family, health, optimism, career choices, housing, and community are all going to be affected by every major decision someone makes, often in ways no one can predict at the start. (Think of how Uber has disrupted traffic patterns at airports across the country, for example.) By helping a client create resilience as part of your plan, they can respond better to the second-order effects of their new plan.

Help your clients understand that there is an urgent need to do reasonable things. Once they know that their life should and can be better, and that the steps required are not extreme, they need to implement the changes required.