Are Your Leads Unqualified, or Are You Losing the Sale?

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When qualified leads who show interest during your sales process remain indecisive about hiring you, it's natural to wonder if there's something wrong with them – not you.

You did everything by the book. You built rapport, gave value at each step of your process, and you followed up with them afterward. But when they still don’t commit, it's only natural to think they weren’t qualified in the first place.

Of course, you’re always going to get a small percentage whose net worth won’t meet your criteria. But if any more than three out of every 10 leads on average aren’t committing to you, then the issue may not be with your leads, but with you.

There’s probably something about your sales approach you’re completely unaware of that's triggering them to not be decisive with you. And it has nothing to do with your personality or your competence.

It’s a feeling they have that, even though you came across well, you're still not the right advisor for them, and they need to find somebody else.

Questions to Ask Yourself

Here are four key questions to help pinpoint where the break in your sales process might be occurring:

1. Are you focusing on building rapport?

You might have heard this traditional sales mantra: “People buy from those they know or like.” Although making a good first impression or getting along with your prospect used to go a long way toward building trust with them, now it can be perceived as “selling,” which can trigger skepticism about your intentions.

2. Are you sharing information?

When you’re an expert and your prospect isn’t, it’s logical to share your knowledge to prove you’re who you say you are. But in a selling situation, your prospect doesn’t want to process information; instead, they want someone to simplify their problem. Sharing information gets in the way of that and makes them feel that they need to “go away and think about it” before they can commit.